Monday, October 27, 2014

10 Months: Longer Weekend Please...

Oh Monday, I wish you were a part of the weekend.

Leif is 10 months old today!  His top two teeth are charging down, one larger than the other.  He's a trouble seeker-I throw out all his toys in front of him in the living room, but of course he makes a beeline for outlets.  Or the blinds.  Or the 10-pound weight sitting on top of Miles's toy box, which he managed to grab and pull off the box.  He's strong and fast.

Last week went by quickly, and before I knew it I had my second quartet rehearsal Friday afternoon.  It really does feel good to play again, and the bari sax is so responsive (although was taken to the shop due to the student who uses it whacked the lower stack out of place, as well as scratched it up so badly in one spot), but I'm not a fan of playing with the people Dan had played with for so long.  They're definitely jazz guys, and the alto player does this crazy vibrato that makes him sound flat.  It's terrible.  Anyway, I've decided that the time/effort it takes to play with this group is just not worth it.  I'm not getting paid, we don't have any gigs/concerts lined up, I have to pay extra for Leif's daycare, and the soprano player wants me to rehearse more.  And he has a bad attitude.  And playing an instrument that isn't mine is uncomfortable-I can't take it home, and I have to find time out of my days at work to practice.  Too many cons out-way the pros on my mental checklist.  I just have to muster up my confrontation skills and tell Dan face to face that I just can't do it-almost resorted to email, but that's too impersonal, especially since I work with him every day.  Sigh.

Let's see, highlights of the week-we purchased a used washer and dryer for the house yesterday.  Phew!  Our laundry is piling up.  I did some projects, but did not complete them (you'll see in photos shortly); and I made the best crockpot dish yesterday (Pork Carnitas!!!).  It took a while to trim the Pork Shoulder, but it was so worth it.

And here's your weekly photos!

Wednesday, October 22: Our empty town home in Canyon Country.  Last visit ever, good riddance Canyon Country and your crazy people!  We will not miss you.

Thursday, October 23: First string cheese and loved it!

Om nom nom.

Thursday, October 23: While cleaning up Leif's room, Leif found a hanger more interesting than his box of toys.

Friday, October 24: Leif loves bath time...and lately he's been, uh, touching himself!  Thus the star.  He's going to hate me one day for posting this photo, I already know it.  

Saturday, October 25: Mr. Leif loves to climb into Miles's crate now, even with Miles in it.  

Sunday, October 26: Before our washer/dryer search, we stopped at a Thai restaurant.  Leif was in super good spirits!


Food was amazing!

So here is one of my projects I'm working on...

Spray painting dollar store skulls and then I will paint them for Dia de Los Muertos.  Let's hope I finish them before Halloween! 
And here's a large table we had sitting out on our balcony for so long it got dirty; so I cleaned it then spray painted it and  will go in our bonus room-Hubs's Game Table!

And this is a nightlight I picked up from the Dollar Store for Leif's room.  It's really awesome.
Happy early Halloween everyone!  I hope you all have a fun weekend.  We don't have any plans really; our neighborhood is really decorated and I think at our clubhouse they're throwing a Halloween party tomorrow.  All I know is that Leif has an awesome costume, he's too young to go trick or treating, but will wear the costume all day Friday.  :)  Work has a costume contest but isn't throwing a contest for decorations this year; instead they chose to have a contest for Christmas decorations.  I'll take photos of me in costume, but not sure if we'll decorate for Christmas seeing as I'm the only staff person and we all leave before Christmas anyway.  Anyway, I'm just excited to watch Halloween movies/shows all week!  Yay!

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

9 Months, 26 Days: Moved!

I highly recommend getting movers if you have to move.  Seriously.  I don't know how we would have gotten from Point A to Point B within such a short amount of time.  Yay, we are all moved!!!  Well, almost...we have one more trip to Canyon Country today, just to finish a little bit of cleaning and to retrieve cleaning supplies, vacuum and odds and ends.

I wish I took more photos of the move, but alas, I got zero.  Moving day was filled with driving Leif to our friend's house early in the morning, packing up the rest of our stuff (which we have WAY more stuff than we realized), then packing some more while the movers worked.  We bought an Amazon Deal for 3 hours, 3 movers and 1 truck...it took 4 1/2 hours to move.  Seriously took 2 1/2 hours to get everything down to the truck, 30 minutes to get there, then 1 1/2 hours to unpack.  They were great though, so happy to hire them!

So we are a mix of super happy and bummed about the move.  Here it is in list form, just because I'm weird and OCD like that...

HAPPY!
-So much space!  Miles loves the fact that he can run from Leif's bedroom all the way to the end of the living room in one long, straight line.
-Neighbors seem to be really nice-on one side it's an older couple who are Scandinavian, very sweet but mind their own business.  The other side is a Mexican family who mind their business, but aren't as friendly...at least they aren't mean.
-My commute is so awesome!  We do face this crazy, windy road for a few miles if we want to go west on the freeway (towards my work), but I've gotten used to it.  It's really not as bad as I first thought it would be.  Monday was super foggy and even then I had an easy time.  I'd rather face the crazy windy road than the multitude of freeways and bad drivers I faced coming from Canyon Country.  And I can leave at 7am instead of 6:30/6:40am and get to work with some time to spare!
-It's so quiet (this is a bummer too, more on that later)...

bummer
-It's so quiet.  Almost TOO quiet.  We just aren't used to it yet; the first few nights we had to have music on/white noise because we're so used to hearing Leif's white noise machine/fans/people.  I think it freaked us out the first night because we heard Miles whining in his crate in the middle of the night, and we didn't know why.  After that I don't think we slept well.  And now that Leif is in his own room, we are a little more worried.  BTW, sleep training is not really happening...yet.  I've gotten up in the middle of the night a few times every night to nurse him back to sleep, and by early morning I'm just so tired he comes and sleeps with us for the last couple hours.  More about that in another post...
-Everything is practically broken!  When I was talking to our nice old lady neighbor, I told her how they left the place kind of dirty, and she said it was way worse before!  So whoever lived there before us just didn't take good care of it.  We made a long list of problems and sent an email to the manager, hoping the ONE maintenance guy they have would come sooner than later.  Just to name a few, the screen door on the front door is barely hanging on-it's broken, won't close and the screen is taped on.  One of our banisters on the porch is a light tap away from falling over.  There is no hot water in the guest bathroom shower (which is a way better shower than the master bathroom one...hubs is seriously afraid of the master bathroom.  I like it, it just needs better lighting).  Windows barely open in the living room, and two of them don't stay open.  There's so much more going on.  But I keep saying to myself "it's a house.  And the rent is good for being a house."

That's basically it.  I'm honestly way happier here than anywhere we've been in California so far.  I think once we are settled in and not living amongst boxes/chaos, we'll settle in.  Apparently the maintenance guy is over there right now since hubs is home waiting for the Direct TV people to come.  He said Jose is way more nice than he thought he'd be.  And so far after work I've taken Miles and Leif on walks around the neighborhood; the streets are narrow, but people drive really slow.  I enjoy looking at all the different little houses and their layouts.  People love Halloween around our neighborhood!  I want to decorate before it's too late.  I bet Christmas is even better.  :)

Okay, I leave you all with your weekly Leif dose:

Friday, October 17 - Leif loves being on his daddy's shoulders

Sunday, October 19 - Leif's own room!

Tuesday, October 21 - At daycare.  He loved the fake piggy bank!

Tuesday, October 21 - Thanks Nana for the cool Halloween outfit!  At home, still unpacking...

Wednesday, October 22 - This morning before we left for work.  Thanks Nana for the Mickey sweatshirt!  Daycare lady asked where he gets such cute clothing; I said his Nana loves him very much.  :)

Tuesday, October 14, 2014

9 Months, 17 Days: Packing is the WORST...Moving is Awesome.

Happy Tuesday!  It seems like my blog posts happen every Tuesday.  Hey, at least I'm pretty consistent...

Weekly recap:

Tuesday, October 7


Weather wasn't too hot (high 80s is not too hot for us now)...so we took a walk around the block
Can you see a shape in this blanket?

Yup, it's Miles.  He's the strangest dog I know and loves being under blankets.  I don't know how he was able to breathe well...
Thursday, October 9

It's been a while, but I finally had a Mary Kay makeover with one of our current Music Department Assistants...she was a great model!

I'm really excited about this new house because I can now host Mary Kay events and am closer to my "adopted" Sales Director in Simi Valley (my current Sales Director lives in San Diego so I'm unable to attend weekly meetings/classes).  I'm currently planning a big holiday open house!  Very excited!

I picked up Leif late and Miss Karen, Leif's childcare lady, took some pretty awesome photos:


Apparently he didn't want to come inside, he was having so much fun in this cool truck.  So-we have to get him a car soon!


Then we opened an early Halloween Nana box when I got home...



Thanks Nana for Leif's first cell phone!  He had a lot of fun with it, and still plays with it.  Success!  And also thanks Nana for the cute Mickey Mouse club outfit.

Friday, October 10

Our school had "Fall Holiday", so our campus was dead.  I was trying to figure out something for one of my faculty guys, and I seriously tried at least 10 people before I had someone live on the phone.  And even she didn't know the answer to my question.  After work I had my first rehearsal with that saxophone quartet our orchestra/clarinet/sax teacher put together.  It was okay...these guys were definitely more jazz saxophonists, so it was pretty loud.  We played a bunch of classical tunes then a Duke Ellington tune, and they were all better at that piece.  I was a little annoyed by the soprano player; when we were trying to figure out a rehearsal schedule, Dan, CLU faculty/tenor player, suggested every Friday and I said it's hard for me since I have a baby to pick up after work and it costs extra for him to stay late...the soprano guy spurts, "Yes or No?".  Folks, when ever someone gives me that sort of blunt ultimatum, I get angry.  Especially when it cuts me off.  RUDE!  I said flat out no, but every other Friday will work-since that's what the alto player had originally said in his email even though he didn't speak up.  I already have a bad feeling about this.  But, I'm playing, and I really do miss playing with a quartet.  So our next rehearsal is October 24.  What I don't get is Dan titled us "CLU Faculty Quartet".  Only ONE of us is faculty.  The other two I have no clue what they do.  I'm going to give it a semester and see where it takes me.

I picked up Leif and when I got home:

Sleepy fella, played real hard at Miss Karen's.
Saturday, October 11

Quick note-we could have picked up our keys on Friday, but since hubs was working and I had my rehearsal, we had no time.  But most of Saturday we dedicated to packing (the WORST).  We couldn't pack much while Leif was awake, but he had a good day playing.


While I was doing laundry, hubs was watching Leif look at one of his books
Oh, and Trader Joe's is evil.  Well it's my favorite grocery store ever, but they're evil because they offer such yummy goodness like this:

Purchased Friday, gone Saturday night.  Sigh.
Sunday, October 12

After a short walk around the block in the morning (this week was bad-I didn't go on one run.  I will start again soon!), Leif had his first chunk of banana!




Weird day with cleaning up the apartment, packing a little more, bad lunch, Seahawks losing, long nap for me that I couldn't wake up from, and that's about it.

Monday, October 13

Another uneventful day-but Leif and I made a Target run.



And here we are today with work being okay and me looking forward to moving this weekend.  We are hiring movers to make it easy this time since there is a deal on Amazon Local.  I'm so excited!  No more stupid neighbors slamming their door shut, leaving garbage in the hallway and sharing walls; no more bad neighbor firing off his harley at 4am on Saturday mornings; no more stupid people partying in the street until 3am...looking forward to this move!

Tuesday, October 7, 2014

9 Months, 10 Days: Life is on the Upswing!

Our little family has been through a crazy roller coaster of emotions/health/life in general, but it looks like the roller coaster is finally at an enjoyable moment for the time being!  Recap!

Wednesday, October 1

Leif is finally figuring out finger foods! He still has a quick gag reflex but he's learning.  It takes a lot of will power not to clean up every second; apparently it's good for his sensory skills to play with food.  Babies are messy! 
Thursday, October 2

Husband started feeling better (thank God!).  He had to come to our library for research so we had lunch together.  I savor our alone time-don't get me wrong, I love my Leif to pieces, but adult time is nice once in a while.

I yelped a Chinese restaurant and it was so-so even though it had high reviews.  
That night I received an email from one of my rental websites and even though we had a deposit on our apartment in Moorpark, I still look at what's on the market.  Well, a house had popped up for rent that was the same price as our apartment...thinking it was too good to be true, I still sent an inquiry email.

Friday, October 3

I checked my email once I got to work, and lo and behold, the realtor replied about the house.  I called him right away and set up a viewing appointment for Saturday morning.  Hubs was in and out of feeling better still, but he said he was up for checking out the place with me.

Saturday, October 4

Leif loves waking me up early on weekends...so we took a 3 mile run.  Afterwards:
Good morning!  I can now pop off the lid to my puffs with my teeth.
We headed out around 10:30am to view the house, technically located in "West Hills".  It's still on the way to my work, but definitely not as close as Moorpark.  You climb up the freeway and get off in the mountains...then take this crazy, windy road up.  We passed a lot of really nice houses and the road felt super narrow.  Finally 10 minutes later we found the place-

See the little arrows?  Yes, this is where it is located.  IN the mountains.
It's definitely isolated, and it's a little area with manufactured homes.  Thus the lower price.  But these homes were nice!  Hubs was discouraged by the drive, but I wanted him to actually see the home.  The manager/real estate guy was really nice, and once we arrived, it was better than the photos I had seen on the rental website.  It's huge-1,300 square feet, two beds, two baths, porch, covered stacked parking, a shed, a little grassy area in the back, TWO stacked ovens (I can cook lots at the same time, haha), and a washer/dryer hookup which means we'd have to buy our own washer/dryer...but at least we wouldn't have to share it!

This place was great.  We took an application and discussed on the way home the pros and cons of this place compared to our apartment that was on hold (and had a freakout about money/future...).  But here is what we came up with (since I love lists):

Apartment
PROS:

  • Closer to work (15 minutes away)
  • Newer apartment
  • Close to stores, food, civilization basically
  • Has washer/dryer
  • Has a path behind the apartment to a park, so good for runs with Miles
  • I have a friend who has a one year-old in the same complex, so play dates would be fun
  • Central Air
CONS:
  • Apartment living is the WORST (neighbors/shared walls)
  • Pet Rent!  They're going to charge $65 per month
  • It's on the second floor and the stairs leading up to it look super narrow; hubs is worried we won't be able to get the couch up
  • We have to share a garage with another tenant and have one parking spot outside
  • Even though it's close for me and hubs for class, it's far for him to work
  • Small living area (850 square feet for the entire apartment)
House
PROS:
  • Same price as apartment, but WAY more space
  • It's a house!  No shared walls
  • Still on the way to work and actually able to drop off Leif to daycare on way to work (apartment Matt would have to drop him off or I'd have to back-track)
  • It's quiet
  • Did I mention we have way more space???
  • Built in cabinets with doors-I actually said to hubs the day before we need doors on our bookshelves since Leif likes to pull things off
  • Double oven, new dishwasher, new sink
  • Parking will be easier and covered
  • There's a porch!
  • Central Air
CONS:
  • Still have to drive a while, even though it's the closest I've lived to work since I've been here (with Leif drop-off, it'll take 50 minutes...but hubs can drop Leif off now once in a while instead of only myself since that's only 20 minutes away)
  • It is pretty isolated, so if we want to eat out it will take a while-but I see this as a pro as well; we have to cook and eat in way more, thus healthier lifestyle
  • It's all electric, no gas; not sure if this will be a pro or con
  • We have to buy a washer/dryer; not too big of a con
After tossing these around, a few hours later we decided it couldn't hurt to fill out the application for it.  Hubs wanted me to call him to make sure it was still available...and WAH WAAAAH-someone had snatched it up.  He told me though to call on Monday if we were still interested, because they may not qualify.  I was an emotional wreck because I thought it was perfect.  We picked ourselves up and drove out to Moorpark to first look at our apartment-well, see the location then the model since we can't see the apartment until the 23rd.  Afterwards we went to take out my friend Michael's dog for a walk/feed him since they were at Disneyland!

Clever the greyhound smelling Leif for the first time

Michael wasn't sure how Clever would react to Miles, but they were just fine!

I had the dogs (Miles was crazy).  Clever was so tame!  And I don't know if you can see, but Clever only has one eye.  He's awesome!
On the way home, traffic got kind of backed up near the exit to the house; we thought it was an accident but then we saw this...

We got excited because we had never seen a helicopter just parked on the freeway before

Fire! 

Due to location, we figured it was probably some idiot who threw their cigarette out the window.  On a 100+ degree day.  But who knows, wild fires start so often in Southern California.
Traffic was so backed up on the other side and it looked like they had been there for a while-people were sitting on top of their cars, camping out.  I felt so bad for them since it was so hot.  We drove further on and noticed they were filtering people off to another exit-so about 100 cars got stuck in that small area.  SO if we had left about a half an hour later than we did, we would have been stuck!  Crazy how that worked out.

Sunday, October 5

I started organizing around the house/cleaning since we have to move soon...but then I remembered Leif had to have his 9-month photos taken!  It's getting harder, he's so squirmy now.  Hubs had to tinker with the photos, but came up with:



Love this shirt on him!
Since it was hot, I changed him and then hung out with my folks:

Hangout is google's version of Skype.  Hi Lola!
Then I wanted to take some selfies with my little one...

He knocked my glasses askew and thought it was funny.  Oh and the bandana was due to the copious amounts of drool he produced.

My glasses are stretched out because of him

I love this little face!
At around 7pm I decided to check my email...and received an email from the real estate guy of the house saying the people didn't qualify!!!!!  Right away we called Ann/fabulous mother-in-law to get her opinion.  As hubs was describing the pros and cons, she said the washer and dryer wasn't a big deal and that it sounded like we were leaning towards the house.  I also called my pa while giving Leif a bath to get his opinion-he said if we were living somewhere short-term, the apartment was fine, but since we're locked in for at least two years for hubs' schooling, a house was more practical.  And optimistic me had filled out the application earlier that afternoon, so all we had to do was scan it, scan bank statements, pay stubs and IDs.  Then we sat and played the waiting game...

Monday, October 6

Both hubs and I were on edge, anxious to hear back from the real estate guy (Ron).  Of course I had a super busy day yesterday which included driving our piano teacher to the ER...yeah, he was scheduled to have gallbladder removal today (he's been in pain since last Monday) but on my way to make copies he was hunched over outside of his office.  I asked if he wanted me to call 911 but Eric is one of those guys who likes to "tough it out"...but I insisted on driving him when he turned down an ambulance.  Poor guy-his surgery was moved up to last night and I'm hoping everything went smooth.  But as work came to an end, I still did not receive any word about the house-so I called Ron.  Ron said it was "one of those days", and he still hadn't gotten to our application but he was going to look through everything soon.

I returned home with our crazy baby:

He now ignores a lot of his toys and goes for things he's not supposed to have...so we took the battery out of the DVD remote and let him have that.


It's hard to tell in this photo, but he gave Miles the remote to play with before returning it to his mouth.  He's been really sweet about sharing-I thank his daycare!
I had missed a phone call, and it was Ron...

"Please call me back on my cell, I have good news."

YAY!!!!

I immediately returned his call and he said "informally" we got the house!  He was waiting to hear from our current town home management (and I agreed with hubs when he said good luck getting a hold of them), and wanted to make sure we didn't have any late payments.  But since we know we're good to go, we got the house everyone!!!

Apparently when hubs dropped off the deposit check this morning, Ron said a few people had applied for the house but didn't qualify.  Apparently this house was meant to be!

Tuesday, October 7

I've been in a much better mood today knowing we have a home to move into.  I forgot to mention that if we moved into the apartment, we would have only one day to move in-and we don't even know what it looks like inside.  We can move into the house on the 15th!  So we have to start packing asap. I'm so excited!  We have so much room and it's in a pretty area-come visit us! :)